Does Size Matter
Does Size Matter? If not, what does? Recently Jack and I received an email asking for a blog post about men. Specifically, we were asked if size matters and what…
Boundaries
Boundaries in the Lifestyle Helping you feel safe and secure Talking about boundaries with your partner can be a fun and interesting conversation. Sexy too. Communicating your boundaries leads to…
Communication
Communication Talking to your partner about entering the lifestyle Communication is a major part of any relationship. Communication in the lifestyle is even more important. Take the time and make…
Lifestyle Words and Abbreviations
Lifestyle Words and Abbreviations When we first started in the lifestyle there were words and abbreviations people used that I did not know the meaning of. I had to go…
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Ethical Non-Monogamy What is it and why do it? Definition Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is the practice of taking part in romantic and/or sexual relationships that are not completely exclusive between…
Taking Action
Taking Action You and your partner have talked and talked and finally decided it’s time for action. Maybe you’ve role played with dildos or just shared fantasies while having sex.…
Ghosts, Flakes, and Rescheduling
Ghosts, Flakes, and Rescheduling Being a hotwife is fun, but there can be downsides. Dealing with ghosts, flakes, and rescheduling is never fun. Sure, sometimes life happens and you have…
Saying No Thanks
Saying No Thanks Telling the person who showed up you are not feeling it and do not want to move forward is a major downside of being a hotwife and…
Meeting For The First Time
Meeting For The First Time Nervous is Normal Being nervous before meeting a new potential play partner is completely normal. Not only are you meeting someone new, which for some…
Hotwife vs Cuckold
Hotwife vs Cuckold They are not the same thing All too often I see the terms hotwife and cuckold being used to describe the same activity. Hotwife and cuckold have…